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Fundraising for Starship

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The Du Lac Chronicles – Mary Anne Yarde

I received a copy of the Du Lac Chronicles after signing up to review the second book in the series. Thank goodness I did. This is a great series and while I’m sure that the Du Lac Devil could be read alone, I wouldn’t want to have missed the start of this series.

The Du Lac Chronicles

“It is dangerous to become attached to a du Lac. He will break your heart, and you will not recover.” So prophesies a wizened healer to Annis, daughter of King Cerdic of Wessex. If there is truth in the old crone’s words, they come far too late for Annis, who defies father, king, and country to save the man she loves.

Alden du Lac, once king of Cerniw, has nothing. Betrayed by Cerdic, Alden’s kingdom lies in rubble, his fort razed to the ground and his brother Merton missing, presumably dead. He has only one possession left worth saving: his heart. And to the horror of his few remaining allies, he gives that to the daughter of his enemy. They see Annis, at best, as a bargaining chip to avoid war with her powerful father. At worst, they see a Saxon whore with her claws in a broken, wounded king.


Alden has one hope: When you war with one du Lac, you war with them all. His brother Budic, King of Brittany, could offer the deposed young king sanctuary—but whether he will offer the same courtesy to Annis is far less certain.


The Du Lac Chronicles has a recommended reading age of 16+

My Review

I do have a bit of a thing for historical novels. This is set rather earlier than ‘my own’ period, it follows the lives of the sons of Lancelot, knight of Arthurian Legend. King Arthur and Lancelot are both long gone, Cerdic of Wessex now rules Arthurs old kingdom and has his sights set on the high kingship. He has invaded the kingdom of Cerniw and taken Alden du Lac, son of Lancelot and King of Cerniew captive. Tourtured and sentenced to death, it seems that there is no escape, but Wessex’s daughter, Annis risks everything to save Alden, even though it means giving up the only life she has ever known.
Alden and Annis battle their feelings for one another, whilst fleeing from Wessex and attempting to reach one of Alden’s brothers; Budic. Alden needs the support of Budic and the army of Breton, if he is to have any chance of winning his kingdom back. Even if he does manage to regain his previous position, will any of his subjects ever accept a member of the enemy’s family as their Queen. Everything seems to be against Annis and Alden, but they cannot help but be drawn together.
I have noticed in other reviews that people have commented that Annis was a little whiny and annoying. To be honest, I think that anyone who had be brought up the way that she has, would be unlikely to be that self assured and would no doubt be quite insecure. Either way, it wasn’t something that really irritated me. I liked both Annis and Alden, although Alden’s other brother, Merton, stole the show when he appeared.
I did like the way that all of the characters were fairly complex. All of the Du Lac’s and Annis had different things to deal with and it was not always obvious how they would react to the situation. I think that in many ways this was a lot more realistic than other books that I’ve read. Battling their fears and worries made them seem like more rounded and real characters. 
This is described as a young adult novel, something that I would normally ignore. I’m not sure what exactly puts it into that genre, don’t let it put you off, I thoroughly enjoyed it and I don’t usually go for YA novels. While there is a strong romantic element to this story, there’s also a lot more going on. 
I really loved this novel and couldn’t wait for the next installment. Fortunately I was able to get hold of the novella; The Pitchfork Rebellion and I already have The Du Lac Devil, book two to read. Review to follow shortly.

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What About Socialisation? How Will Your Homeschooled Child Make Friends?

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Cake decorating and cruising on the Pacific Jewel ship with P&O Cruises… what could be better

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Anxiety – I am A-OK

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S03e04 The Bachelor NZ Girl on Girl Zac who?

I’m writing as I watch…. unfiltered and raw. S03e04 The Bachelor NZ Girl on Girl Zac who? Date One Viarni used the while rose, she took the date from Bel.  I think they have great chemistry. Shopping trip, all The Department Store product placements were so over the top,  “I’m kind of like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman. Except I’m not a hooker.” she said 🙄 Meanwhile back at the ‘mansion’ Bel is talking about Viarni stealing her date like Viarni knew it was hers, duh she had no idea it could have been any one of the other girls date. Viarni got a rose straight after they had been speaking about Crohns Disease..romantic….   The next day Cue the bitching, omg get a life.  I bet the producers encourage it… RATINGS The Group Date They played touch, Tayla won one on one time and you could tell they didn’t really have much connection or attraction, she is very competitive, it is hard to tell if she is there for him or just to WIN.  I wouldn’t be surprised if she gets sent home.   The Rose Ceremony –  2 Eliminations Bel comes across as being very sweet, he seems interested in her.   Zac let it slip that he has a date set for her later on, basically confirming that she will get a rose, Zac really seems to be more of a straight up kind of guy and I like that! Nina – it’s totally fine… ahahahahah awkward laugh – she should have been like I understand but I was upset. (People pleaser). She just let Maddie interrupt her time.   I don’t know why they media is making such a big deal about the kiss, Rose Order for The Bachelor NZ S03e04 1 – Rosie 2 – Hannah 3 – Maddie 4 – Bel 5 – Nina 6 – Jess 7 – Lily 8 – Sophie 9 – Molly 10 – Claudia 11 – Ally 12 – Lucia Eliminated The Bachelor NZ S03e04  – Tayla and Stephanie   The episode can be summed up like this..girl-on-girl action for the first time. The peck on the lips between Katey and Lucia during the rose ceremony? It was all about the cattiness and smack talk and that brutal game of touch rugby. Who do you think will win The Bachelor NZ? Save Save Save Save Save Save Save Save Save Save Save Save

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Blake’s Surgery Day | A By-Play Of Our Day

I was intending to get this post about Blake’s surgery out last night. But by the time we got home last night we were all so emotionally and mentally tired that all we wanted to do was go to bed and forget the day. I do want to thank all the people who commented and …

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#cancersucks #teamhikuroa

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Green Smoothie with Pineapple and Spinach| Dairy free

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Shop: Your dream sunglasses and where to find them

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Daddy dates

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152 kilometres on a bike with a baby

After a year of living in Copenhagen, BBB (Bilingual Backpack Baby) has become a natural impersonating Cleopatra in her Thule Cycle Chariot while being towed around the city. 

Wanting to ensure she didn’t get bored (or too comfortable) we thought it time to up the game and give her a greater cycling challenge by tackling the Otago Central Rail trail on our recent trip back to New Zealand.    It’s a 152km off road cycle trail in Central Otago which follows the former route of the Otago Central Railway line.  It’s been a huge tourism success story for New Zealand bringing back much needed life (that’s the polite way of saying cold hard cash) to an otherwise sleepy part of the country as they now pump through 15,000+ cyclists every year who take between 1 and 5 days to complete the trail.  

One of the few road crossings on the Otago Central Rail Trail, New Zealand.

One of the few road crossings on the Otago Central Rail Trail, New Zealand.

When you cycle the trail you really feel like the locals truly appreciate you visiting their area making it that bit extra special to bike.  The old disused railway line has now become ‘New Zealand’s original great ride’. 

There are of course other over achieving outdoor families who take their children on far more physically demanding and logistically challenging missions.  Such as cycling to the moon and back (or similar).  So we’re not out to claim a gold medal for our efforts on this adventure.  But never the less it is an adventure worthy of encouraging others (baby or no babies) to do also. 

Firstly however a clarification to satisfy my own self professed athlete status.  While the route is officially 152km – the Dane, BBB and I actually cycled 179.33km (yup, that’s Ironman distance my friends).  This included 30 ‘tiki tour’ kilometres of additional sightseeing off the main track as well as some additional miles to get to our accommodation each night.   If my bum had not taken 3 days to adjust to the saddle this distance would have likely been higher.

After staying with friends in Dunedin for the night we began our trip with a train ride from Dunedin to Middlemarch (aka Buckfeck Nowhere, population approx. 300).

Middlemarch, New Zealand.  The start of our Central Otago Rail Trail adventure.

Middlemarch, New Zealand.  The start of our Central Otago Rail Trail adventure.

At Middlemarch we collected our hired bikes and cycle trailer from one of the local cycle operators.  As well as hiring bikes they also plan your itinerary and carry any additional gear for you along the trail.  You can of course take your own bike and book your own accommodation but we found the ease of someone else crossing the t’s and recommending where to stop each day to be a much more efficient use of our time.  It didn’t cost us anymore as they get their cut from the accommodation operators they book us with.

So after re-packing our gear for what we needed to take with us on the bikes we had a quick picnic lunch at Middlemarch before setting out at the less than ideal time of 2pm – the hottest part of the day at 28c with clear blue skies.  Additionally we soon discovered the cycle trailer for BBB better resembled a washing machine tossing her around, which made for a long and not ideal first 24 kms to Hyde.   

Cycling the Otago Central Rail Trail in summer often means hot blue skies and minimal shade.

Cycling the Otago Central Rail Trail in summer often means hot blue skies and minimal shade.

To be fair there wasn’t much we could do about the time of the day we began cycling as the train only goes there once a day.  And the sun, well I’m not overly adapt at making that disappear either.  But the cycle trailer was something we should have perhaps thought about a bit more before setting out.  Being used to our cycle trailer in Copenhagen with a special baby insert that keeps BBB from doing 360’s in the trailer we didn’t think to check the functionality of the hired one before beginning riding.  Insert bad parents disclaimer here.  Although I’d also argue the hire company should have also realised due to BBB’s petite status the trailer wouldn’t be ideal either.   We did however make it (just) through the first day and to our first nights’ accommodation at Pete’s Farm.  A heritage farm homestead complete with original black floral wallpaper.  At which point the beauty of having organised our trip through a Cycle Tour company was realised.  After a couple of phone calls to them it was agreed they would find a car seat that we could tie into the cycle trailer for BBB which would better support her.  They’d drop this the next morning at an agreed place on the side of the road for us.  Literally, on the side of the road. So big ups to them for finding a solution, putting it right and ensuring we could cycle the rest of the trail.  It would though be great however to see some more baby specific cycle trailers available for hire from the various tour operators.  None of the ones I saw were baby specific.

The rectified cycle trailer with car seat inserted to ensure BBB was sufficiently supported.

The rectified cycle trailer with car seat inserted to ensure BBB was sufficiently supported.

Day 2 perhaps unsurprisingly, was a lot more enjoyable without BBB being tossed around like a salad in her trailer.  Over the next 4 days we fell into a nice pattern of early morning starts to miss the heat of the day cycling between 24 and 37kms per day with a coffee stop and/or pit stop (aka BBB nappy change) somewhere on the side of the track.  We typically arrived at our destination each day by midday.

The entire trail is supported by numerous business providing various services to cyclists from purpose built accommodation to information kiosks, cafes and country pubs who have been able to re-invent themselves attracting and welcoming cyclists with cycle racks, meat pies and lattes.  I look forward to the day that the pubs and cafes in cities in other parts of New Zealand follow this lead.

While the tracks gradient is described ‘easy’ and has no steep hills, don’t get too complacent and think you can do it without any cycle fitness.  It still requires effort (especially in temperatures exceeding 28c with little or no shade like we had), but it is manageable and you can choose your own pace.  E-bikes (the ones with a little motor on it) have also recently been allowed to be on the track which has opened up ability for people of a wider range of abilities to now use the track.  It took me the first 2 days to realise that while the track looked flat, it was false flats.  I could not find my rhythm and struggled to understand why the cyclists coming in the opposite direction were effortlessly whizzing by while I was having to put effort into every pedal. 

Overall the elevation climbs from 200 m to 618 m with the peak near Wedderburn. 

Map credit: http://www.centralotagonz.com/

Map credit: http://www.centralotagonz.com/

You can cycle the track in either direction (Middlemarch to Clyde, or Clyde to Middlemarch) and while most seem to cycle it Clyde to Middlemarch I don’t think it really matters too much which way you go.  Either way they’ll be uphills for approximately half the trail, and if you’re lucky a breeze at your back.

Otago Central Rail Trail highest point.  Thank feck.

Otago Central Rail Trail highest point.  Thank feck.

Our itinerary

Day 1                 Middlemarch – Hyde (27 kms)

Accommodation:  Peters Farm Lodge http://www.petersfarm.co.nz/

Peters Farm Lodge, Waipiata, New Zealand

Peters Farm Lodge, Waipiata, New Zealand

A really unique and comfortable stay in a heritage farmhouse.  Highly recommend also paying the extra $25 for the BBQ meal.   Check out the reviews on TripAdvisor.  Although note it is not directly on the trail but Pete will lend you a car to get yourself from Hyde to his farmhouse (20km drive but don’t let that put you off). Or if you’re an over achiever you can also cycle all the way to his house.

Day 2                Hyde – Ranfurly (37 kms)

Accommodation: Hawkdun Lodge, Ranfurly http://www.hawkdunlodge.co.nz/

Hawkdun Lodge Motel, Ranfurly, New Zealand.

Hawkdun Lodge Motel, Ranfurly, New Zealand.

A really great modern motel.  Super clean and comfortable with a spa pool and a small communal lounge and kitchen area available for everyone to use.  We really appreciated the access to this extra space with BBB and the ability to cook on a proper stove.  Very welcoming & friendly staff.

Day 3                Ranfurly – Oturehua (26 kms)

Accommodation:  Inverlair Lodge http://www.inverlairlodge.co.nz/

Invelair Lodge (far building), Oturehua, New Zealand.

Invelair Lodge (far building), Oturehua, New Zealand.

We really enjoyed our nights accommodation at Inverlair Lodge.  See below for more on this highlight from our trip.

Day 4                Oturehua – Omakau (30 kms)

Accommodation:  Millfield Cottage http://www.millfieldcottage.co.nz/

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Ophir is 2kms from Omakau and well worth a small detour to cycle to (you can do it in a loop off the cycle trail from Omakau).

Day 5               Omakau – Clyde (37 kms)

Accommodation:  Antinque Lodge Motel http://www.antiquelodgemotel.co.nz/

Destination reached.  Clyde, New Zealand.

Destination reached.  Clyde, New Zealand.

After all the other great accommodation choices we’d stayed in on the trail that each had their unique selling points this was probably the least special on the route. That’s not to say there was anything wrong with it, but just that it had nothing particularly memorable other than the additional $5 charge if we wanted a highchair.  Given you can buy a highchair for less than $40 it would have been awesome if the use of highchairs was complimentary.

Our overall highlight:

There are many highlights of the trail, the joy of most being that you don’t discover them until you’re on them and make your own memories.  Like the unassuming playground in Waipata we stopped for lunch on day 2 and the random conversations you’ll have with both locals and other cyclists on the way.  However the small town of Oturehua was our overall and unexpected highlight. 

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At Oturehua we stayed at Inverlair Lodge (above picture is not Invelair Lodge….fyi) which was impressively designed so that while it is a shared lodge (which I was initially a bit dubious about with the potential for BBB to wake everyone up), we were still assured of privacy with 6 separate bedrooms with ensuites located at the rear of the Lodge. Quite separate from the communal spaces.  We also gave them bonus points for providing a highchair and port-a-cot complimentary.  We carried our own port-a-cot along the route but it was appreciated when we didn’t have to set it up and after 3 days of balancing BBB on our knees at meal times a high chair was a great treat also.  Overall everything in this lodge was incredibly well thought out and all for a very reasonable price.

At the front of the lodge you find big wide open common spaces of kitchen, dining and lounge to share with any other guests.  Complimentary muffins were also a nice touch.  The lodge is a stones throw from the local community pool which for $3 you can get the key from the local general store and enjoy a refreshing dip.  No bells and whistles at the pool.  Just a grateful opportunity to cool off from a days riding in 28c. 

While in Oturehua be sure to visit Gilchrists (the general store you can also get the key for the swimming pool from).  It is sold as ‘perhaps’ New Zealand’s oldest continuously operating general store with shelves full of nostalgic ‘Kiwiana’ products.  Given there is only the Pub and the General Store to visit in Oturehua (excluding the community pool) I’m fairly confident you’ll find time to visit both whether you intend to or not.  The pub also serves great meals and has a very family friendly garden area which BBB enjoyed.


Inverlair Lodge

Inverlair Lodge


Inverlair Lodge

Inverlair Lodge


View from Inverlair Lodge

View from Inverlair Lodge


Gilchrists General Store, Oturehua

Gilchrists General Store, Oturehua


Oturehua Community Pool

Oturehua Community Pool


Oturehua Pub

Oturehua Pub

 Our recommendations for cycling the Central Otago Rail Trail:

–          Don’t put your child in a salad tosser.  Hire a cycle trailer fit for purpose.  The hire cycle trailers I saw were not designed specifically for 6-24 month old children.  Ask if the trailer has a baby insert if you are looking at hiring a trailer for your baby.  If that isn’t available use a carseat strapped into the trailer.  Not ideal, but it worked fine for us and hopefully in the future a few of the cycle companies will get more baby specific trailers available to hire.  Also be mindful if using a trailer that there are a few cattlestops and gates along the way which you’ll have to navigate the trailer around.

–          Use one of the many cycle companies to design and book your trip.  It doesn’t cost you anymore and you won’t have to re-invent the wheel trying to work out logistics nor carry all of your gear.

–          Carry the food you need each day with you.  But be open to stopping and enjoying the hospitality at the various pubs and eateries along the way.  As we had BBB we couldn’t risk not finding food when we needed it so every day we packed our own lunch and morning tea but occasionally ‘upgraded’ and brought a coffee, scone or lunch along the way.

–          Keep an eye out for ‘Cheese Rolls’.  A local delicacy.

–          At Wedderburn you’ll find a little red hut right on the cycle trail where you can buy snacks and coffee from vending machines.  Take some cash/coins with you.  Additionally they also have an eftpos machine that you can ‘charge’ yourself for the goods taken.  Although that doesn’t help with paying for coffee as that is a vending machine so you’ll need coins for that.  We did a desperate search for coins to gain our coffee fix for the morning.

–          A tip for Ranfurly.  When in Ranfurly you’ll find two Four Squares (small supermarkets, not the social media platform) where you can replenish food stocks.  While they both sell food which you can’t go too wrong on, we preferred (and had also been recommended) the Four Square with the little café attached.  It’s across the road from the i-site on the corner.

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If you want to find out more about the trail and how to begin planning your trip, head to http://www.otagocentralrailtrail.co.nz/  or contact us below if you have any additional questions.  You can find more photos from our trip on our .

Many thanks to the various people, accommodation providers etc who helped us have a great time cycling 152km from Middlemarch to Clyde with BBB.  A little crazy to think that all those years ago when the idea of building the cycle trail was first raised that some resisted it.  It is now such a great asset for the Central Otago region and one for many other regions to be jealous of.

The Otago Central Rail Trail is, regardless of your physical ability, a journey which makes everyone feel like an adventurer upon completion.  Do it.

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Celebrating 3 Years and ‘Getting Lucky’ 

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Easy Slow Cooker BBQ Ribs

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